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The quiet work that happens around a psychedelic experienceLatest

7/6/2026 · 5 min read

The quiet work that happens around a psychedelic experience

Most of the change does not come from the experience itself. It comes from the weeks before and the weeks after. That is the part I sit in with people.

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Why the body holds what the mind would rather forget

Why the body holds what the mind would rather forget

You can understand something perfectly and still feel it running your life. That gap is where the body comes in, and it is a big part of why I run retreats.

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What couples therapy is actually about

What couples therapy is actually about

It is not a courtroom, and I am not a judge deciding who is right. Most couples are stuck in a pattern, not a fight. Here is what the room is really for.

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Mindfulness based therapy

Mindfulness based therapy

Where mindfulness comes from, its three principles, and how it can help you break out of patterns that no longer serve you.

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Roommate tension: how to fix your roommate issues during confinement

Roommate tension: how to fix your roommate issues during confinement

Personal space, cognitive distortions, and the behavior/feeling/proposal formula: practical tools for living together during confinement.

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Let's talk about Anxiety!

Let's talk about Anxiety!

A step-by-step Cognitive Behavioral Therapy technique to reduce your anxiety and take back control of your life.

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10 Practical Things You Can Do In Self-Isolation or Quarantine

Isolation, quarantine, social-distancing: what's the difference, and what can you actually do with all this time at home?

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Don't let COVID-19 Confinement Affect Your Mental Health!

Don't let COVID-19 Confinement Affect Your Mental Health!

What can you do to take care of your mental health during confinement, instead of getting swept up in stress, panic and frustration?

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